This past weekend our family was honored to host Lana’s friend for her first non-family member sleepover. Lola’s mum (a KIwi) and I have become really good friends. Although a first sleepover is a big deal, it didn’t feel like it at any one moment because it was really so casual. I actually had to keep reminding myself to take pictures to share with her family.

When it was (way past) bedtime I thought we’d call her mum so that Lola could say good-night. After her mum spoke to her, then it was her dad’s turn & then her brother’s turn. It was so sweet. I remember thinking what a lovely family they are, this unit of four that is so close. As someone who has dragged her kids away from everyone we know, we have tried as a family unit to become stronger. Our hope is that our kids feel safe and grounded in a place that is not home. I realize, however that having wonderful friends and families like them around us adds to making OZ feel like home.

Last week my friend Jenny posted about how one quarter of her time in OZ has passed. Although I miss my family and friends back home, the thought of this experience ending did sadden me. We have been blessed in our time here to have met so many wonderful people and so many lovely families. Since many of them are also expats, I know the time to say good-bye will come, but those thoughts are not for now.